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I don’t recall seeing “chow down on deep-fried tarantula” on the tour itinerary, but when our local trip guide reviewed the day’s plan – mouth in a wide grin, eyes dancing at the mention of “eating spiders” – there it was. Given I’m willing to try (almost) anything once, I was game. Besides, I’ve already tried beetle, scorpion, and cricket, so what’s a big ass spider?
During the 6.5 hour drive from Phnom Penh to Siem Reap we made brief stopovers in several small towns in the Cambodian countryside. Towns served by the same unpaved and uneven two-lane road from which vehicles zooming by kick up mini-dust storms so intense, that sometimes those closest to the edge wear face masks for protection. One of those places is Skuon, more colloquially known as “Spiderville” because of its proliferation of tarantulas.

Spiderville
Eating spiders may seem weird to some, I know, but during the brutal reign of the Khmer Rouge, catching those sizable, eight-legged, hairy insects could mean the difference between starving and starving a little less. Nowadays, deep-fried tarantulas are considered a delicacy and enjoyed as a snack.
Three cute Cambodian children greeted me as I descended the steps of the passenger van once we’d pulled into the parking lot of an outdoor market. The only boy among them – I guessed he was around 9 – said to me: “Sister, you are beautiful.” The oldest girl, standing to his right, shook her head and added, “Your hair is so pretty.”
What is this? Me? My hair? My looks? Who put these kids up to this? People with my dark skin, kinky hair, and African features aren’t exactly held up as paragons of beauty in the US. I wasn’t accustomed to this type of attention.
I didn’t have much time to consider the kids’ comments before they began trying to charm me into buying from them: plastic bags filled with mango or other fruit, colorful origami birds, and various smaller packages of what vendors were selling in the stalls 15-feet away.

K_, our Cambodian guide, strongly discouraged us from buying from the kids – much to my dismay. It’s hard to say no to a sweet child with a gap-toothed smile who’s pleading with you to buy fruit “so that I can go to school.” However, as K_ explained, if they’re able to make an income by hawking goods to tourists, sometimes parents will pull their children out of school so they can work instead. I knew the kids I met were in school because they told me so when I complimented their great English. We’d arrived during the students’ two hour lunch break.
Despite my refusals to part with my cash, the kids trailed me – like an entourage – as I walked toward the market and the many platters stacked high with an array of fried insects and fruit for sale.



K_ handed each of us a crispy tarantula leg to try. We giggled and teased each other through the experience. Once I got over the initial disgust at the idea of what I was eating, the tarantula actually tasted decent – not like chicken, more like beetle. The salt, sugar, and oil flavoring no doubt helped. It did take me a while to chew though. Like the hairs from the leg didn’t want to leave my mouth. Ick.
As we were gearing up to leave, K_ tapped my shoulder, pointed toward an aged woman wearing a deep-pink head scarf and clothed in long, floating layers, and told me: “She said she likes your hair.”
This never happens to me. What is this magical place?
I waved goodbye to my adorable, pint-sized entourage from behind the window as our van eased out of the lot.
From Silkworm to Silk Scarf
Santuk Silk Farm in Kampong Thom marked the second stop on our countryside excursion. Run by a US veteran of the Vietnam War and his Cambodian-Laos partner, the modest farm employs 15 women and one man from the local community. The weavers work hard spinning the silk into beautiful, color-rich scarves. We got the opportunity to learn about the process of turning the byproducts of silkworms into soft threads for weaving – a 6-week cycle – from one of the co-owners.




After getting the lowdown on the world of silk, we sat down to a home-cooked meal for lunch.

The cat family of the farm joined us for the meal, eagerly anticipating fallen morsels and scraps. A small dog resides on the farm, as well. For lunch, he chose to kill one of the clucking chickens. Thankfully, I did not witness this animal act of gallinicide, but a few of my tourmates did.

Sugar Palm Candy
Not too far from the silk farm, we made a pit stop at a roadside sugar palm candy stand. Made from the sap of sugar palm trees, the hardened candy is sweet enough to make your eyes pop. You can also cook with it, boil it into a juice, or melt it into your tea or coffee if a shocking jolt of sugar isn’t your bag.
After making our purchases, we piled back into the van and our driver, Mr. S_, pulled out onto the dirt road. The afternoon had barely settled and already we’d done so much; I couldn’t wait to reach the next stop and adventure.
What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever eaten? Would you eat a deep fried tarantula?
Read Part I and Part II from my Southeast Asia travel series and stay tuned for more from Cambodia!
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Lauren Steffus
June 11, 2016Keisha, I will be visiting Cambodia in March 2017. We have a stop planned at the very same market with our guide.Here is the thing, I am deathly afraid of spiders! Even the tiny little guys that sneak into your house. I can not even walk by the tarantulas at the pet store. In one response you mentioned the kids chasing after you and egging you on to eat the spider. Would you have any advice for me? I will NOT be eating the tarantula. But should I announce my fear? Will that make it more fun to chase and tease? Certainly there is more at this market worth seeing, yes? I suppose we should not skip it just because of this one thing, true? Oh gosh, are there live tarantulas there too? Please share any suggestions how I could gracefully handle the spider thing. I know there is no way I can just grit my teeth and bear it. Thanks. Great posts by the way!!
Jen @The Haute Mommy Handbook
March 9, 2016Girl, you are BRAVE! Nice pics, by the way. They really bring your trip to life!! 😀
Kat
February 16, 2016Wow, you’re very brave to try that fried tarantula. I wouldn’t even dare to take a bite out of grasshoppers or worms! I betcha that is one experience in Cambodia that you will never forget for the longest time 🙂
Roberta
February 10, 2016Keisha! I nominated you for Liebester Award! Head over to my blog and look what I’m talking about. (adventurousmiles.com/uncategorized/liebster-award-nomination/ ) Have a great week! 🙂
mytravelmonkey
February 9, 2016I just couldn’t have done it… Not even if you paid me! Brave woman you are 🙂 #MondayEscapes
The Girl Next Door is Black
February 10, 2016You never know how you might respond when the tarantula is thrust in your face and little kids who eat them all the time are egging you on. Haha. 🙂
@Mrs_AOK
February 3, 2016. I think @grlnxtdoorisblk needs a travel show. eh hem @Tastemade |Tarantula Eating, Silk Spinning & Candy Making https://t.co/xOTLuKpReE
Mrs. AOK
February 3, 2016I truly enjoyed reading this, Keisha! You seriously need your own travel show. 🙂 I would tune in each week to see and hear your commentary on your travels. This silk worm to silk scarf visit is something I would totally enjoy.
XOXO
Mrs. AOK
February 3, 2016I like your hair too! 🙂
XOXO
The Girl Next Door is Black
February 4, 2016You always leave the best comments. 🙂 I was wondering if anyone made it down to the silk and candy parts of the post. Glad to hear someone did! Re: my hair, thank you! 😛
Keri from Baby Globetrotters
February 1, 2016What a fascinating trip through Cambodia, thank you for sharing highlights from your journey. We’re about to make the same trek with our little ones in a couple of months time so really interesting to hear the advice on giving to the children – and I’ll have a little think about the tarantula’s! #MondayEscapes
The Girl Next Door is Black
February 4, 2016Yeah, you’ll see kids all over the country trying to peddle stuff to tourists. Stay strong! It’s for the better good (or so I’m told). I hope you have a wonderful time on your trip!
Kakada
February 1, 2016Thanks for your coming here ! Bless you
Ayesha
February 1, 2016I did in siem reap….. Was creepy but not as bad as I thought it was going to be!! X
Norm 2.0
January 31, 2016I’ll have to be awfully hungry before you’ll see me chowing down on bugs and spiders, but I tip my hat to those who have the stomach for it – no doubt they’re loaded with protein.
For me it’s just the yuck factor I guess 🙁
The Girl Next Door is Black
February 4, 2016It is pretty yucky, especially when you think about it conceptually. *Shudder* But, to each their own. I eat crawfish and some people think they are gross and dirty.
Alun
January 29, 2016Nope no i would not not even if it was covered in chocolate lol
Michele Richards
January 29, 2016Lovely pictures and article. Looks like it was culturally refreshing. Travel is such a blessing.
Renea
January 28, 2016Not going to happen.
Michelle
January 28, 2016Never gonna happen. Nope! But good for you for giving it a go! The pics were hilarious! Call me. 🙂
The Girl Next Door is Black
January 28, 2016Haha, you know I don’t do a good job of covering my facial expressions. 😛 Will do!
Caroline
January 28, 2016No way am terrified of spiders. But the question is would you do it again? C x
Yanique
January 28, 2016Uh…No. LOL!! Good for you though
Sandra
January 28, 2016Hairy…that’s worse than the oddly crispy I feared.
Proud of you!
The Girl Next Door is Black
January 28, 2016It was an odd mix of chewy/crispy. Thanks! 🙂
Leslie
January 28, 2016No!
Oumayma Legraini
January 28, 2016Wow!! U’re really inspiring! am proud of you!!! *_^
The Girl Next Door is Black
January 28, 2016Thanks! 🙂
Heidi
January 28, 2016Nope. But I did try the crickets.
The Girl Next Door is Black
January 28, 2016How were they? Seasoned the same way?
Mega Mills
January 28, 2016If I was starved yes. But just for shits and giggles.. Nope. I’ll leave you to it.
The Girl Next Door is Black
January 28, 2016Lol, fair enough!
Robert
January 28, 2016OMG! Maybe? Yikes!
The Girl Next Door is Black
January 28, 2016Lol
Dominique
January 28, 2016You’re brave. I could never have eaten that! Lol
@TheLimerickLane
January 27, 2016Oh, hell no! RT @grlnxtdoorisblk: Eating deep-fried tarantulas in Cambodia! https://t.co/3ZjulsVGV7 #tbloggers https://t.co/3dUTSs8Kxf