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  • Quit Talking about the Lack of Diversity and Do Something

    Tuesday, November 10, 2015 7 Career + Work black in tech, black women entrepreneurs, Career, diversity in Hollywood, diversity in tech Permalink 13
    If an organization is truly committed to increasing diversity, they'll do more than just talk about it. | Read more from "Quit Talking About Diversity and Do Something About It on The Girl Next Door is Black

    Last week, a Black software engineer, Leslie Miley, made news when he shared why he quit his job at Twitter – where he was the ONLY Black engineer in a leadership role – in a thoughtful piece on the lack of ethnic diversity in tech. In recent years, Twitter and other tech giants have come under fire…

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  • When You’re Confronted With Racially Insensitive Terms at Work

    Thursday, May 28, 2015 24 Career + Work black in tech, diversity, language evolution, Master / Slave, Racially insensitive terms Permalink 0
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    Last week I sat in a meeting where the word “slave(s)” was said at least 20 times.

    No, I wasn’t involved in a discussion on slavery or history, as someone asked when I tweeted about it. I was in the office of a tech startup. [I’m contracting in my old career until my new one takes off.]

    Each time “slave” escaped someones’ lips, I cringed internally, trying hard not to externally display my discomfort. However, with each “slave” uttered, I sank deeper in my chair as my tension found other ways to release itself: a bouncing foot, a tapping finger, shifting positions in my chair. With every vocal release of “slave” it was as though someone tossed the sharp-edged word directly at me. A lashing by lexicon.

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  • 5 Ways I Stayed Productive (and Kept Sane) During Unemployment

    Monday, November 17, 2014 18 Career + Work 20s, 30s, broke in Los Angeles, Career, career change Permalink 0
    Gordon Creek Road by Luke Detwiler , Winding Road | The Girl Next Door is Black

    The last time I experienced unemployment was over 10 years ago. I was in my mid-20s, living in the heart of Hollywood, California. I don’t just mean living in Los Angeles, I actually lived in the Hollywood neighborhood. My roommate and I could see the Hollywood sign from her condo balcony. I came home one Friday evening to a message from my temp agency informing me that I’d been let go from my several months long temp assignment. Again? I thought. While this hadn’t been a permanent job, it still marked the third time I unexpectedly and abruptly found myself without employment in a 3 years.

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  • Post Traumatic Stress from…Work?

    Wednesday, August 27, 2014 10 Career + Work, Friendship Austin Texas, burnout, Career, career changes, Career counseling Permalink 3
    Cracking under stress

    My career counselor told me she thinks I have post traumatic stress from my last two jobs.

    I laughed when she said it. The past two years have been intense for sure, but post traumatic stress? Isn’t that usually reserved for soldiers, victims of violence – you know, real trauma?

    I knew my sense of confidence and self-efficacy took a serious hit with the job I left in 2013. I admittedly felt a bit raw going into the next place.

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  • Laid Off, Not Laid Out

    Thursday, June 19, 2014 5 Career + Work, San Francisco anxiety attack, bad leadership, co-workers, company culture, dysfunctional behavior Permalink 0

    I got laid off this week.

    The news didn’t completely surprise me. I knew the company, which I’ll refer to as “Fancy Startup” (FS), planned to cut some jobs [the numbers-focused CEO told us weeks ago, “We have too many employees and still more to hire. We now have x hundreds of employees and plan to hire x number more. Do you guys think we should have that many? That’s crazy!” He laughed mirthlessly, “By year’s end I expect we’ll have the same number. So…”]

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  • I Woke Up Thirtysomething

    Tuesday, August 20, 2013 2 Career + Work, Life 30 something crisis, 30-something, achievement, Acting career, aging Permalink 0

    “As you sit in your rocking chair at the age of 100, what might be a regret you will have if there was something(s) you did not do/achieve/try?”

    I stared at the question on the work/life reflection worksheet given to me by my career counselor. One of several questions aimed at helping me find my “passion.” The idea being once I discover this elusive passion, I can direct my efforts toward an endeavor I’d truly find satisfying and meaningful, instead of middling through a career that like a perfunctory meal, provides nourishment, but doesn’t inspire, isn’t particularly memorable or something you want to effusively praise to your friends.

    Things I’d regret not doing?

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  • Waking Up From a Bad Dream: Job Nightmares

    Tuesday, July 16, 2013 6 Career + Work, Life, San Francisco Career, career advice, Career counseling, Changing Careers, creativity Permalink 0

    I’ve been living in San Francisco for 9 months. I genuinely like San Francisco now (no one say, ‘I told you so!’). I realized a few months ago that I like the city. At the time, I’d add the caveat: “But, I’m not sure about the people.” Now I just like it. No, it’s not the city I knew it to be when I first visited over a decade ago. Yes, as a new friend lamented “Strangers don’t talk to strangers here” and “Men [seem] too afraid to approach women.” I’m adapting to the culture and the norms. I even trained myself not to make eye contact with people on the street.

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